Keep Fighting!

I watched this local variety show, (从心开始), there was this lady (main topic of the show), her husband passed away, and she is so DEEPLY in love with her husband that she really live for nothing ever since her husband passed away. She never go out her house, she never go to work, she only stay at home and talked to her husband daily. She even travel to go see her husband daily but not to visit her son at the boys' home. She said she believe that her son is able to pull himself up and be independent. And the host asked her how many times did she visited her son? Her reply, 1 year.. She only seen him 3 times. The word OMG! came into my mind. 1 year, 365 days and yet you only see your son 3 times?! This is really crazy. Then the host asked her, why she can visit her husband everyday and not take the time to see her son. GUESS WHAT her reply?! It is because her husband is nearer to her place while her son is too far away. This mother is really getting on the nerves of everyone, including me.

As a mother, you should take your responsibility to take care your son. Yes, you love your husband whole heartedly is not wrong. But at least you should love and take care of your son. Your son is a gift from your husband. Why not put all your love you have for your husband on your son?! Rather than giving up and live aimlessly?! This is really crazy.

" Loving someone whole heartedly is a blissful thing to do. Loving what he leaves behind is a bliss of love. A person died, leaves memories of moment. A person living, give you precious moments of memories that you will miss when he leaves. Cherish the one living... "